Showing posts with label baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label baby. Show all posts

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Teeth!

My last post was titled Sleep! and I ended by making a comment about how Leo would probably start teething and ruin it all....
well....

A couple days ago Leo was chewing on my finger (which isn't that unusual) and I felt something sharp!  His first tooth had popped through without me even noticing!  An adorable little bottom tooth.
Little guy showed no signs of teething other than a lot of drool, which he's been doing since the day he turned 9 weeks old.  I remember.

I was like wow this is way too good to be true! I could see the white of his 2nd tooth pushing up next to it and thought oh great he'll be getting a tooth right when we're flying to Ohio!
A fussy baby on a plane AND fussy baby in front of all the people I've been telling over and over again how good he always is.

Well that was 3 days ago and he has been more irritable than usual.  He hasn't been eating that well (solid foods) and nursing more often and last night he woke up twice in the night.   Poor little guy!!!
This morning I can feel both teeth through on the bottom so I hope the worse of that is over and we get a couple weeks of relief while we're traveling!!

We've decided to hold off on any type of pain intervention with Leo unless his teething pain gets a lot worse.  He's never had any type of medication and I'd like to keep it that way.  I also have read some pretty weird stuff about the teething tablets and the amber necklaces... so we won't be going that route either.
And in case you didn't hear the FDA came out and said no more baby Orajel!  So read up about that before you give your baby any type of numbing gel for teething!  http://www.webmd.com/fda/benzocaine-babies-not-good-mix


I'll be gone when Leo turns 7 months so I'll have to catch up on that post later.  But I'll give a quick little bit.  So much has been happening this month!

Leo can now crawl anywhere  he wants and as fast as he wants.  He will follow me all around the house and if he sees something he wants he makes a mad dash for it!  His favorite of course are electrical cords.  The only cords ever visible are our laptop chargers and he acts like it's Christmas morning when he can get his little hands on one!
Every morning I rearrange the living room putting the computers up and turning our coffee table sideways to block him in!

And as soon as he mastered crawling he wanted to pull up on everything.  He seriously tries to climb the walls!! He's not that steady yet so this also means lots of tumbles and bumping of his little head if he can get to something to climb while I'm not watching.
His favorite climbing toy though is Lee or I.  We lay in the floor with him and he goes to town climbing all over us and pulling himself up to a standing position.  He's so cute, but it makes me sad my baby is getting way way too big!

He's currently napping after a big early lunch of sweet potatoes, chicken, and apple sauce.  Dude loves to eat!  I'm pretty sure his mouth is feeling better because he just ate like 6 oz of food and nursed...... that diaper should be fun later.
Probably as soon as we get in the air on the plane.

Thankfully it's only a 2 hour flight!


If I haven't said it yet, solid food diapers are the nastiest thing ever.  Thankfully this week I was able to catch one on the toilet................. but only 1.  :/  We're still working on it, but we'll probably take a break while we're in Ohio.  Hopefully Nanny likes to change diapers......



Leo helped me pack his suitcase :)  As you can tell he's pretty excited to wear his long sleeved clothes!




Monday, September 8, 2014

Sleep!

I know it just seems like yesterday that I posted Leo's 6 month updated and admitted that we weren't quite there yet with the sleep schedule.... but in the past 2 weeks something miraculous has happened!
Leo has started sleeping the entire night through!! 10, 11, even 12 hours!

So what changed?
Well.... I got a little tough.  (In addition to maintaining a schedule and bedtime each night and allowing him to fall asleep on his own)
I wouldn't say that we did the Cry It Out Method because that is just a little too sad for me to handle, but I did let him cry some...
I began this a couple months ago making him stretch his feedings out in the night.
I did this by when he would wake up, say around midnight, I would go in and comfort him, but not feed him.  Usually this was patting him and offering the pacifier, but sometimes I rocked him.  After a while he realized I wasn't going to feed him and fell back asleep........... or fought it majorly and screamed bloody murder until I gave in and fed him.  We had both.

Eventually he began sleeping longer and longer until we hit about a 6 hour plateau.
I was fine with the 6 hours because he's still a baby and there's always that nagging feeling in the back of your head that maybe he really is hungry and what kind of mother would I be if I was denying my baby food?!

Well at 6 months a normal, healthy baby can safely go 12 hours without food.
So when he got a little older Lee suggested we get a little tougher and teach him that he could go longer and longer.
So once again I began comforting him without food, which sometimes meant crying... there were 2 nights that there was a lot of crying, or it seemed more like screaming.  He wasn't sad. He was MAD.

But after 2 nights of that he stopped waking up for that middle of the night feeding and saved it for morning, which I am happy to do.  For close to 2 weeks now he's been waking between 5:30-7:30 to eat!  If it's more like 5:30 I'll bring him to bed with me and feed him and snuggle for another couple hours.  If it's 7:30 he'll be up for the morning.  To tell the truth I actually prefer the early morning feeding because I love falling asleep with him next to me, and Lee is usually up around 5:30 so we have the bed to ourselves.


Now that he's sleeping through the night it seems like the perfect time for him to start teething and screw it up...





Monday, August 18, 2014

My 5 month old uses the toilet...

Catchy title huh?
But I'm serious.

Let me explain...

A little back story -
When I was pregnant and trying to convince Lee to use cloth diapers one day he said to me "what do mothers in places without access to diapers do?"  This lead to a little research and discovering that these mothers basically learn to read their baby's signals and take them outside or hold them away from their body when they need to go.  Then I found that there is this entire "thing" call Elimination Communication.  I thought it sounded interesting, but quickly forgot about it with all the other things to think about with a new baby and deciding to do cloth diapers was more than enough for me when it came to Leo's bodily functions...

Flash forward several months and my friend Sarah read my post about cloth diapering and shared with me that her little one was potty trained quite early and that she had avoided changing poopy diapers since she 2 months old!! I was DEFINITELY intrigued and now that I knew a real person who had done this I dove into some serious research.

Wikipedia says Elimination Communication is a practice in which a caregiver uses timing, signals, cues, and intuition to address an infant's need to eliminate waste. Caregivers try to recognize and respond to babies' bodily needs and enable them to urinate and defecate in an appropriate place (e.g. a toilet). Caregivers may use diapers as a back-up in case of misses some or all of the time, or not at all. EC emphasizes communication between the caregiver and child, helping them both become more attuned to the child's innate rhythms and control of urination and defecation. The term "elimination communication" was inspired by traditional practices of diaper-less baby care in less industrialized countries and hunter-gatherer cultures. Some practitioners of EC begin soon after birth, the optimum window being zero to four months, although it can be started with babies of any age. The practice can be done full-time, part-time, or just occasionally.

Ok, so that is a little intense.  It's not nearly as crazy as it sounds, but I also don't really consider what I'm doing Elimination Communication and I'm definitely not going diaper-free like some people do!  I'd call my approach - offer the baby the option.... alternative baby elimination habits... infant toilet users.
I'm not sure. Sometime more catchy than those...


Leo was 5 months old when I started looking into this and I'd like to consider myself a pretty aware mother and while I knew Leo's patterns I had no clue about what to look for.  I only knew he was peeing or pooping once it was already happening!

After reading and reading and reading I decided the only way to see if it'd work for us was to just go for it. So I sat Leo on the toilet and he just started peeing!! It was insane!! I was like the craziest person yelling "Yay Leo!!!! Good boy!! Going pee-pee!!" hahahaha Leo just sat there staring at me like I was insane. Which I am.
I text Lee right away.
Crazy parents.

The very first day he went 3 times on the toilet.
I was HOOKED.

It's a very addicting... kinda like a game.  Can I catch him? Can I avoid having a dirty diaper today?
And with cloth diapers, the less dirty ones, the less laundry.

So I began offering Leo the chance to use the toilet at different times during the day.
First of all, he is a morning pooper (if you're not a mother I apologize... I would have never been interested in reading about a baby's bathroom habits pre-motherhood. lol)  It's usually around 7:30am after he nurses and is awake for the day when I finally drag myself out of bed and take him to the bathroom.  95% of the time he will go pee and poo!

Then I try again before and after naps, after nursing, before a bath, and any time we leave the house.  If he doesn't have to he'll instantly get squirmy when his tush hits the seat.  If he has to go he'll sit still and concentrate.  It's the most adorable thing, if using the bathroom can be adorable.
It still excites me every single time he goes!

If I am being very proactive I can catch the majority of his pees and all of his poos!  Often he'll wake up from a nap completely dry!

The most important thing to remember with this is that there is no pressure on the baby to go.  He's 5 months old.  Dude doesn't really know what's going on.  It's not potty training.  If he goes in his diaper it's no big deal.  And like Wikipedia said, it can be done part time or just occasionally.  Although I did put him on the potty at church on Sunday, I don't do it out in public typically.  They make things you can buy to put over the toilet seat, but for now I'm not investing any money and I don't want my baby near a public toilet!

I'm basically just trying to learn my baby and offer him the chance to pee and poo on the toilet to avoid having both me changing him and him sitting in a dirty diaper.

So you may thing I am absolutely crazy. Which is ok, I'm sort of used to it. This definitely isn't for everyone!  I'm home with Leo all day and have the opportunity to try this out.
I'm just here to open your mind for you to consider something you might not have before!

Here are a couple resources:

http://eliminationcommunication.wordpress.com/ (I recommend)

http://www.webmd.com/parenting/features/bye-bye-diapers

http://www.naturalbirthandbabycare.com/elimination-communication/


Friday, August 15, 2014

Postpartum

I fully intended to do this post much, much sooner so that my postpartum experience would much a lot fresher in my mind, but that didn't happen, so this will be a little less descriptive I suppose.  It's unfortunate though because I look forward to having these posts to read when I'm preparing for the next Baby Coghill! 

I am now 5 months postpartum and I have happy to say that the only lasting ill effect of having a baby at this point is hair loss.
MY. HAIR. IS. FALLING. OUT. EVERYWHERE.

Now I have long hair, really long hair, so it is even more noticeable.
My sweet baby is learning to crawl and I am constantly pulling hairs off the floor so he doesn't eat it!!
I did find a new trick one day after I had vacuumed and still found like 10 hairs on the carpet - lint roller!! It is amazing!  You can get them at the Dollar Tree so it's a cheap way to pick up every single hair, fuzz ball, and grain of sand in a hurry.  And, baby isn't afraid of the lint roller :) All of a sudden last week he decided the vacuum was terrifying...

Anyway, to prevent my hair from falling out everywhere I usually have my hair in a bun or a braid throughout the day so it doesn't fall out around Leo. When I take a shower and brush my hair out the bathroom is a frightening scene.  I wouldn't say it comes out in clumps, per say, but there is a lot of it coming out.  I am starting to get thin areas along my hairline.  I guess soon I'll be back to my 5th grade hairstyle with all those dang curly "baby hairs" along my hair line sticking out in every which directions.  Awesome.

I also still have a very faint trace of the linea alba (the dark line on my belly) remaining, but it gets lighter all the time and I forget it's there.  Other than that though I really cannot complain. I feel pretty much like I did before I had Leo, that I can remember anyway.

So, what was it really like postpartum?
I detailed a lot of the gory details in my last post - Our Hospital Stay, but I left off 1 week after having Leo.

Now I admittedly had a extremely easy pregnancy.  Like a dream pregnancy.  I have 0 complaints about the 9 months I carried Leo.  Sure I got a few headaches and saw some flashing lights, but I'm pretty sure that's minuscule compared to some other stories I've heard.  Anyway, I think that my pregnancy put me a leg up on the recovery as well.  When I was pregnant I read so many scary blogs about what my life and body were going to be like postpartum and I want to tell you that it might not be that way!  Every single person is different.  Every pregnancy and delivery are different, so there is no way to know how your body is going to respond.... but just because you have a baby doesn't mean you'll have a horror story to tell.
So I'm going to share my positive - post birth experience.

Obviously we have to talk about weight.
Over all I gained around 34ish pounds and as of last week I am 4 lbs less than I was pre-pregnancy!!
I did work for some of that, but to be honest, I lost a lot immediately.  I had an 8lb baby and lost a lot of blood and fluid during delivery.  I weighed myself when I got home from the hospital and I was already down about 25 lbs.
Over the next couple weeks the swelling in my stomach slowly went down and I began to feel ready to exercise.  I started off walking outside with Leo.  Short walks about 2 weeks postpartum and slowly adding distance.  Around 6 weeks postpartum I began Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred.   Ok. this workout is legit.  It is HARD.  Especially for someone who hadn't really worked out in months and months.  But it was worth it!! Within about a week I felt so much more endurance and stronger.  I really felt like it strengthened all my muscles, including my internal muscles.  In the beginning if I didn't pee immediately before starting the workout I would pee doing jumping jacks, but through a combination of doing my kegels and the 30 day shred I quickly regained control of... that.
I did have a bit of underlying motivation for completing the 30 day shred - Hawaii!! My sister in law got married 11 weeks after I had Leo in Hawaii and I did not want regret not trying my hardest to slim down before the trip.  At the end of the shred I really felt shredded.  I had abdominal muscles that were probably more firm that before Leo was born!  Another great video is the Ab Ripper X which is apart of P90X.
And of course, I am breastfeeding Leo, which burns an additional 500 calories a day they say... but I am positive I more than make up for that loss with eating.  Breastfeeding made me sooooo hungry and thirsty initially, now I've kinda leveled off, but I still like to eat.

Next, stretch marks.
I was terrified of getting stretch marks.  Which is kind of silly when you think about it.  My body was producing a human being and I'm worried about some scarring on my stomach?  But, somehow, genetics probably, I didn't get a single stretch mark from pregnancy.
2 weeks later + milk inflated breasts = a few stretch marks.  They seriously appeared over night.  One feeding nothing, the next I had purple lines on the outsides of my breasts. I was bummed, I had made it through 9 months of serious skin stretching and then bam!  But you know what... 5 months later you would never know they were there.  The purple faded to red which faded to pink, which I'm guessing faded to white but since this area never sees the sun it's 98% unnoticeable.  So have no fear, it's true when they say they'll fade over time!  5 months isn't even that long!
Now what they'll look like once I quit breastfeeding?? Who knows.  I'm not too concerned.  These breasts have fulfilled their purpose. haha

So, how about the bleeding.
I bought the jumbo sized Always overnight pads and a pack of granny panties in preparation because pretty much everything I read told me to, but in my experience after a couple days I downgraded from overnights to regulars for about 2 weeks and then on to just a liner for about 1 more week.  I do have a nice stock pile of sanitary napkins under my sink though.
Oh and in case you're wondering, no my period has not returned.  I am still breastfeeding so it's really unpredictable as to when it will return.  I'm not complaining though.
Otherwise all things appear to be in full working order and basically exactly as they were before baby.

Ok, the pain.
It did hurt that's true.  The first week I was very, very sore.  When we went to the doctor every bump in the car hurt like heck.  Standing and sitting were difficult. I think it was the stretching in those movements that hurt the worst.  Getting up out of bed at night was no fun either.  Thankfully our bed isn't that low to the ground so it wasn't too bad.
It's funny because I didn't take a single medication my entire pregnancy and during labor the only thing I had was something for the nausea... but when I got to my room in the hospital with Leo and the nurse asked if I wanted something for the pain I said YES!   The first week I took a few Tylenol here and there and sat on an ice pack to help with the swelling and after about a week I was moving around much easier and within 3 weeks I had absolutely no pain.
I also experience the contracting pain in my uterus while breastfeeding for a couple weeks.  It didn't hurt that bad, but also didn't feel good.  Contracting uterus = flatter stomach = another reason to breastfeed!

Another area to discuss - hormones.  To be honest, I don't know a whole lot about this subject.  I've never really been too affected by hormones by way of emotions (unless you count liking boys as a teenager... and I definitely did that).  I actually I mentioned to Lee before I was pregnant that I was concerned with my fertility because I didn't know if I produced the proper hormones and then again when I was pregnant I was convinced I wouldn't be able to breastfeed because I didn't have ANY pregnancy symptoms - therefore in my mind I must not have hormones or at least not enough hormones...
Well, I was wrong.  Apparently I do in fact have sufficient amounts of the proper hormones (thankfully).
After having Leo I did have a few times where I felt a little overly emotional or irrational, but thankfully after about 2-3 weeks things seemed to level out.  I mean I guess to be sure you should ask Lee... but I feel normal.


So yea... that's that.

Friday, July 25, 2014

Cloth Diapers

A friend recently emailed me to ask about my experience cloth diapering and I realized I had yet to blog about it!  SO much to blog about so little time!  So if said friend reads this blog it will pretty much be word for word of the message I sent her...
There are a million websites out there all about cloth diapering, so it's not like I'm introducing anything new to the internet ;)  I actually watched a ton of youtube videos about cloth diapering before Leo was born to learn more about it!

First of all, I have been so pleasantly surprised with how easy cloth diapers are!
Seriously.  I get no money from any cloth diaper companies (but I am more than willing - hint, hint!) so I am being honest when I tell you that it is barely more difficult than using disposable diapers. And it's a whole heck of a lot cheaper!
Even my husband is 100% on board with the cloth.  And he changes  A LOT of the diapers.  Before he started working he changed the majority of them. 

Second, forget what you know about cloth diapers (unless you know someone else who uses cloth, obvs). It is nothing like when our parents or grandparents cloth diapered.
We use the pocket style diapers with inserts.  They come in a million different adorable prints and can be washed and used over and over and over and over. They change sizes with the child and I plan on using Leo's diapers again for our future children!

Third, they are better for the environment.  Any energy used with the washing machine and dryer is minimal compared to producing disposables and then having them sit in a landfill for eternity...

Fourth, did I mention how cost effective they are?!
For our "stash" - cloth diaper groupie lingo, I have invested about $100.  I have 20 diapers and 24 inserts, 1 large wet bag, and 1 small travel wet bag. At this point (5 months in) I'm guessing we've saved over $400 in diapers. FOUR HUNDRED.  That's a lot no matter how much money you have.

Fifth, you don't have to be all in with cloth.  We still put Leo in a disposable at night because he just pees way too much and the cloth were leaking after 4,5 hours.  There are more things we could do to use cloth at night (doubling up inserts, wool covers, etc), but for now we're just going disposable.  We also usually put him in a disposable for church or if we're going to be out of the house for several hours.  Any amount of cloth diapering you do though saves money.  I feel like if I'm going to be home with him all day I have no reason why I can't use cloth.

Sixth, they say cloth diapered babies potty train earlier!  Because the cloth are less absorbent (not gonna last 12 hours like the Pampers...) they are not as comfortable for baby to sit in after they've gone to the bathroom so they figure out earlier "hey this is gross, I should just go to the toilet instead"  haha!  I mean, that's something I'm hoping for!


So this is how it goes.  When Leo is dirty I take off his diaper, pull out the insert - only touching the very tip, so I never actually touch anything poopy and throw them both into the large "wet bag" I have hanging on the back of his door. It's called a wet bag, but it's basically a big draw string bag made out of a special material PUL (Polyurethane Laminate) that keeps it from leaking and smelling.

When it is time to do laundry (usually every other or every 3 days) I take the bag to the washing machine and dump it out and then turn the bag itself wrong side out and stick it in the washer too.  I run it through on a cold rinse cycle.  This rinses away any poop.  Breast fed baby's poop is water soluble, it is amazing how easily it rinses off and disappears in water.  When we lived in Michigan we had to pay for the washer so instead of doing the extra rinse cycle I would put them in the big sink in the basement and rinse them by hand.  It was a lot easier and less gross than you'd think.  Anyway, if you have laundry at home that's nothing to worry about, just pop them in the washer and rinse.
*FYI front loading washers are not recommended though because they use so much less water...
After the rinse, I set it to a hot wash and add detergent.  I use any non-scented dye free detergent, like All Free and Clear. 
When they're done I either put the inserts in the dryer or put them outside to dry.  I always air dry the wet bag and the covers so the elastic doesn't get damaged.  Some people dry theirs on low heat, but again with the energy saving bit. 
If the diapers ever get stained (Leo's have never stained, not eating food yet) or aren't looking super white I lay them out in the sun to get bleached out. Some people actually bleach their diapers, but you have to rinse them 3-4 times afterwards to make sure no bleach residue is left because it can be harmful for the baby's skin.
Bleaching and/or multiple rinses is also called stripping.  If you notice that the diapers are leaking or smell you may need to strip them.  Which means you rinse them multiple times to remove any detergent buildup to make sure they stay absorbent.  You rinse them until the water is clear, free of soap bubbles from old detergent left over. 

We have been using cloth diapers for over 4 months now and I just recently stripped Leo's for the first time and I did it preemptively.  I had not noticed them smelling or leaking, but I wanted to make sure it didn't happen! 

Things change a little once the baby eats solid  foods because obviously their poop changes!  It is then no longer a good idea to just toss them in the washer (wwaaa) and you need to first dump the poo in the toilet. This is when a lot of people install at diaper sprayer - an attachment for the toilet, much like the spray nozzle in the kitchen sink, to rinse the poo off into the toilet, and then you put in the bag as usual. 

After they are washed and dried I "stuff" them with the inserts and stack them up under the changing table to use again!

I should also mention that Leo has never had diaper rash, ever!

Here's some pictures of our diapers because they're just so cute and I am obviously officially a crazy mother who gets excited about diapers...
                    
One of my favorite prints! 

                            
Inserts.  On the left are bamboo/microfiber blend and the right are just microfiber 

                                 
This is the pocket where the insert  goes in to absorb all the pee and poo. 

                                  
They have buttons across the front and sides that make them adjustable.  This is on the smallest size, which Leo wore when he was a few weeks old :)

                                 
Here is one snapped to a larger size.
Leo is now on the next to largest size for the leg holes and a few snaps out around the belly.  They say that right before a baby can crawl is when their legs are the chubbiest, so have no fear thinking your baby is going to out grow the diapers before they potty train!

                            
We have solid colors - a couple blue and orange too.  A few were dirty at  time of photos :)

                           
and some prints! 
                            

                           

                            

All of our diapers are from China. aka - cheap.
The majority of ours are from www.alvababy.com/ and sunbabydiapers.com/
I have also bought a few off of ebay for less than $2-3 each!

There are tons of brand names in cloth diapers, but I found them to be too expensive for us to buy up front. They definitely would still save money over disposable in the long run, but you have to have a couple hundred dollars to invest in the beginning.

We do however have 3 brand name swim diapers that were given as gifts!  We have Charlie Banana and Kushies.
If you don't consider any other cloth options think about reusable swim diapers.  They are the best!! No huge saggy bottom, no mess.  I have a small wet bag I take with me to the beach or pool and after Leo wears it I stick it in the bag and throw it in with the rest when we get home. Or you could totally just use a grocery sack.
I've read that disposable swim diapers only hold in poop, they allow the pee to just transfer through which is what the reusables do too, so why not have one your baby can wear again and again and save some money!

                             


Leo seems to like them :)




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